11.02.06
Fiesty Redhead from Jdate
Update: This girl totally blocked me before I had a chance to talk to her again. I think I know why. She’s an egomaniac. She keeps googling her name every 5 minutes to see if she is getting poopular. So I posted a link to her website and she probably saw it on google and said “zomg a jdate dude talked to me, what a dick.” I said it two years ago, I’ll say it again, this girl has ISSUES.
Up until 3 weeks ago I couldn’t exactly pinpoint my love for red heads. Then I went to a friend’s engagement party and Micah and I discussed how Katie ruined it for us. She’s a hottie, I’ll find a pic of her one day to show you all. Ever since Katie, I’ve just had this thing for redheads.
On a seperate note, I found a hot redhead on jdate. I had a brief conversation with her last night but her pic had not posted yet. This morning I logged on and her pic posted and it broughtback memories from two years ago. This was my first encounter with her, from 12/19/04
To save you trouble, I’ll link her website right away : http://www.shaynarose.net
*singingrose63*: my pic will be up tomorrow
*MedEng*: ok, i see i have to wait… so do u have a name or would u
prefer not to divulge that info?
*singingrose63*: I see a common theme already with you jdate guys.
The first is…it’s all about looks. Not that I should be
concerned…I just signed with one of the top modeling agencies, but
it is so superficial. I’m trying to get away from that as much as I
can. Then, as soon as a guy on jdate doesn’t get exactly what he
wants…he gets defensive and rude. What’s up with all of this male
jdate craziness?
*MedEng*: whoa whoa, hold on, im very sarcastic… sometimes things
dont go through aim well
*MedEng*: but listen i know its superficial for me to care about
looks, but i only asked cuz some girls prefer to not post a pic
*MedEng*: i dont think its crazy for me to want to refer to you by a name
*MedEng*: or to chat with your on a different messenger
*MedEng*: thats just how i prefer to do things
*MedEng*: but if u arent comfortable with that then just tell me, im
more than reasonable
*singingrose63*: ok
*singingrose63*: fair
*singingrose63*: I am impressed that my response didn’t upset you
*MedEng*: well i understand it thats why, jdate is overwhelming for girls
*MedEng*: u sign on and bam 50 yo men are iming u saying stuff like
“ill take u shopping wherever u wanna go just so i can be seen with u”
*MedEng*: thats why i tell my female friends not to post a pic
*singingrose63*: lol
*singingrose63*: gotcha
*singingrose63*: that makes sense
*MedEng*: and just so u know i IMed you cuz u have red hair and i
melt for red heads
*singingrose63*: well you would love mine
*singingrose63*: not too brag
*singingrose63*: to
*MedEng*: heh who turned off the modesty switch
*singingrose63*: lol
*singingrose63*: my name is Shayna
*MedEng*: hi shayna, im Lee
*MedEng*: so can i turn off the modesty switch too?
*MedEng*: i mean my goyish friends laugh at me when they see me on jdate
*MedEng*: and tell me i should rename my profile “EarningPotential”
*singingrose63*: sure
*singingrose63*: what’s “earning potential?”
*MedEng*: u know like someone who is gonna make a boat load of bling
*singingrose63*: how’s that, is Ed Mcmann at your door?
*MedEng*: well i just got my masters degree in electrical engineering
and i work for a promising medical device startup company
*MedEng*: but id leave it all in a second for ed mcmahon
*singingrose63*: is that how you spell his name?
*singingrose63*: I am a terrible speller
*MedEng*: sure, i have no clue
*MedEng*: so shayna, what do u do?
*MedEng*: besides model
*MedEng*: and get pissed at jdate dudes
*singingrose63*: I am really an actress and a singer
*MedEng*: oy
*MedEng*: everyone in LA
*singingrose63*: modeling is sort of just to pay the bills
*singingrose63*: I know
*singingrose63*: cliche
*MedEng*: so r u a waitress too?
*singingrose63*: lol
*singingrose63*: no
*MedEng*: and did u grow up outside LA?
*singingrose63*: I’ve been doing this since I was 8
*singingrose63*: Denver CO
*singingrose63*: moved here 2 years ago
*MedEng*: wow even more cliche
*MedEng*: and u live in hollywood?
*singingrose63*: I don’t like LA
*singingrose63*: no
*singingrose63*: pico robertson
*MedEng*: oh in the chood
*singingrose63*: I don’t like anything that’s superficial
*singingrose63*: that’s why I don’t like it here
*singingrose63*: and I hate telling people what I do
*singingrose63*: b/c of just that, everyone here is doing it
*singingrose63*: yes
*singingrose63*: the chood
*singingrose63*: lol
*MedEng*: hey i hate telling people what i do too, the most common
response is… omg u must be so smart
*MedEng*: and i grew up here
*MedEng*: and to us angelinos, the superficiality is this facade that
we see right through
*singingrose63*: eh, I won’t give you that much credit
*MedEng*: people who grew up here, we arent like the cliched LA peeps
*MedEng*: its ok i know im awesome, u dont need to tell me 
*singingrose63*: do you like LA?
*MedEng*: i love it
*MedEng*: cuz there is something for everyone
*MedEng*: but i gre wup here, hence the jaded view
*MedEng*: there are many many things i hate
*singingrose63*: want to live here the rest of your life?
*MedEng*: yep, in malibu
*MedEng*: having a house over looking the water, thats my dream
*MedEng*: i want to be rich but not famous
*singingrose63*: would you ever consider living somwhere else?
*MedEng*: yes as long as its near the ocean
*MedEng*: like san diego
*MedEng*: definately not denver
*MedEng*: 
*singingrose63*: Oregon?
*MedEng*: it rains a lot
*MedEng*: but its gorgeous up there
*singingrose63*: was that a yes?
*singingrose63*: it’s by the ocean
*MedEng*: that water is too cold to swim in… so no
*MedEng*: =P
*MedEng*: i also have to go where the jobs are…
*MedEng*: so cali is the place for me
*MedEng*: so shayna have u acted in anything i might have seen?
*singingrose63*: small co-star part on gilmore girls
*singingrose63*: and I have a non-speaking featured spot coming up on
John Goodman’s new show “center of the universe”
*MedEng*: cool
*MedEng*: i havent never seen gilmore girls so dont hate me
*MedEng*: i dont watch much tv
*MedEng*: unless its adult swim
*singingrose63*: so what are you looking for here on Jdate Lee?
*MedEng*: well lets start by saying that i want a girl who is smart,
funny, cute, ambitious and independent
*MedEng*: i know its not much to ask but its hard to find
*MedEng*: a funny anecdote…
*MedEng*: last night my cousin’s gf was asking me about a girl i was
seeing from jdate, i told her we werent seeing each other anymore and
my reason was that she wasnt smart enough
*MedEng*: my cousin’s gf told me that was very superficial
*singingrose63*: what?
*MedEng*: i know
*singingrose63*: she needs to look up the definition of that word
*MedEng*: i know its ironic
*MedEng*: so what r u looking for shayna?
*singingrose63*: Well, to be honest…I’m looking for the one.
*MedEng*: but the one is just in he movies
*MedEng*: the*
*singingrose63*: Lots of guys on here are just looking for a date,
and if getting laid was a choise I’m sure they’d check that bax.
*singingrose63*: box
*singingrose63*: anyways
*singingrose63*: no, not in the movies
*singingrose63*: I want something real
*MedEng*: well im not opposed to that at all
*MedEng*: i kinda like the “getting laid” bix
*MedEng*: box
*singingrose63*: haha
*MedEng*: that would be so funny
*MedEng*: lets just say this… all guys are looking to get laid
*singingrose63*: I’m not
*singingrose63*: I’m looking to get married
*MedEng*: and the guys on here well what can i say, either we are so
desperate that we think we can only click with jewish girls or our
parents force us
*MedEng*: um im looking for a girl that i could potentially marry
*MedEng*: but i need to be with that person 3-4 years before we get married
*MedEng*: so i can tell if she truly is the one
*MedEng*: and considering i want to get married between 28-30 i gotta start now
*singingrose63*: oh boy
*singingrose63*: why does it take so long to make up your mind?
*singingrose63*: not really ready huh?
*MedEng*: well what can i say, nothing is ever as planned
*MedEng*: but i feel likeu need time to gel
*MedEng*: i wanna be sure, i dont want to marry someone i could
potentially divorce
*singingrose63*: are your parents divorced?
*MedEng*: nope, my dad passed away when i was little
*MedEng*: but
*MedEng*: i grew up in LA
*MedEng*: avg marriage lasts less than 5 years
*singingrose63*: I’m sorry to hear that
*singingrose63*: but you shouldn’t let statistics scare you
*singingrose63*: unless you feel like you are average
*MedEng*: no, way above averagge, but im really picky
*MedEng*: i need someone who can intellectually challenge me
*singingrose63*: what does that have to do with the length of time thoguh
*singingrose63*: though
*singingrose63*: when it’s right, it’s right
*singingrose63*: you don’t sound ready
*MedEng*: whats the rush?
*MedEng*: i mean r u ready to marry me?
*singingrose63*: lol
*singingrose63*: no, but I am on jdate to meet people who are ready
to get married
*singingrose63*: I hate wasting time, and my heart
*singingrose63*: I give a lot
*singingrose63*: and I don’t want it to be in vain
*MedEng*: i give a lot too, ive had my heart broken more times than i can count
*singingrose63*: so I just don’t want to get mine broken again
*MedEng*: u dont sound ready yourself
*singingrose63*: I want the next time I really involved to be the last time
*singingrose63*: If i can help it
*singingrose63*: why not?
*MedEng*: there is a syaing in poker
*MedEng*: u cant win any chips unless u put some chips in the pot
*singingrose63*: so?
*MedEng*: so u seem like u are looking for excuse to not lose anymore chips
*singingrose63*: you think I’m saying i don’t want to put chips in?
*MedEng*: all or nothing is a dangerous game
*MedEng*: believe it or not im more ready get married than most guys
*MedEng*: but thats just who i am
*MedEng*: im a nice guy who likes to think of others
*MedEng*: but im not ready to make a leap unless im sure im gonna make it
*singingrose63*: that’s why you just said you are looking for a date
in you profile
*singingrose63*: because you’re ready
*singingrose63*: funny
*singingrose63*: some guys put children and marriage
*singingrose63*: they must be just as ready as you
*MedEng*: haha u know how many times jdate has change my profile
*MedEng*: i havent updated that in over a year
*MedEng*: i want to start with a date
*MedEng*: is that tooo much to ask?
*singingrose63*: well maybe you should
*singingrose63*: you want girls to know what they are in for
*singingrose63*: well, in a way
*MedEng*: nothing i say can prepare them for that
*singingrose63*: Look, either someone wants to get married or they dont
*singingrose63*: it’s that simple
*MedEng*: yes
*MedEng*: i want to get married
*MedEng*: just not tomorrow
*MedEng*: i want to have kids
*singingrose63*: so you’re either looking or not
*MedEng*: just not tomorrow
*MedEng*: hell yes im looking, whats the point of dating then
*MedEng*: (besides ot get laid)
*singingrose63*: so right now your goal is not marriage
*singingrose63*: maybe someday
*singingrose63*: but it’s not at the top of your priority list
*singingrose63*: right now
*singingrose63*: that’s ok
*MedEng*: my goal right now is to find a girl who is cool enough that
i want to spend all my time with
*singingrose63*: well good
*MedEng*: thats why i say im picky
*MedEng*: if they cant keep me interested for long enough then whats the point
*MedEng*: im not looking for a fuck buddy
*singingrose63*: 3 or 4 years picky
*MedEng*: hey idont think there is anyting wrong with that amount of time
*MedEng*: whats your ideal date to engagement range?
*singingrose63*: for you it’s fine
*singingrose63*: for me it’s not
*singingrose63*: approx 1 year
*singingrose63*: if it’s taking you longer than that to make up your
mind, then you don’t really wnat me
*singingrose63*: that’s all
*MedEng*: well all i can say is if u are the one then it doesn treally matter
*MedEng*: the length of time that is
*MedEng*: i just dont wanna have kids ina year
*MedEng*:
*singingrose63*: amen
*MedEng*: u would have ot be damn cool to get me to wanna marry u
*singingrose63*: wow, you really lkike to thrill em before the first
date don’t you?
*MedEng*: like i said, nothing i can write in my profile can prepare anyone
*MedEng*: im very unlike anyone youve ever met
*singingrose63*: oh I’m sure
*singingrose63*: you are impressing already
*MedEng*: so shayna, whats the next step?
*MedEng*: what size ring do u wear?
*singingrose63*: lol
*MedEng*: where would u like the honeymoon to be
*MedEng*: are both your parents jewish?
*singingrose63*: look…I am looking for a serious relationship. If
you would like to go out one night to see if we click great, but I
don’t want to waste either of our time. So if you’re interted let me
know.
*MedEng*: um i might need to see a picture first =P
*MedEng*: i kid i kid
*MedEng*: of course
*MedEng*: i like our “fire”
*MedEng*: id love to see if we click
*MedEng*: but u have to pass a voice test
*singingrose63*: www.shaynarose.net
*MedEng*: if you dont have an annoying voice then i will have no
problem meeting u
*MedEng*: one of these days…
*MedEng*: come back to me
*MedEng*: oh thats a tease, why isnt the whole song up there
*singingrose63*: well I do have annoying voice actually
*singingrose63*: only speaking
*singingrose63*: or so I’ve been told
*singingrose63*: it may be self paranoia
*MedEng*: hey, i hate my own voice, but everyone says its really sexy
and soothing
*singingrose63*: stop complimenting yourself
*MedEng*: btw the flash is very slow on your website
*singingrose63*:
*MedEng*: hey u flipped off the modesty switch yourself
*singingrose63*: it might be your computer
*MedEng*: no no
*singingrose63*: one time
*MedEng*: i used to do flash programming
*MedEng*: ok ok i stand corrected, u should get the person who did
your site to update it so it runs on firefox better
*MedEng*: on internet explorer it runs fine
*singingrose63*: i will let him know
*singingrose63*: thanks
*MedEng*: np, im a huge computer nerd
*MedEng*: i hope that doesnt frighten u
*singingrose63*: not at all
*singingrose63*: i love that